Working on me, myself and I

Working on yourself is the most difficult undertaking you could ever embark on. I go quiet on the socials sometimes, precisely because I am working on myself and I cannot share every step of the process with you all. I have learned that granting unrestricted access to you and your inner self is not aContinue reading “Working on me, myself and I”

I have a dream of a cohesive family unit

Today I saw the most prayerful, bravest kids.I wish I had their conviction of faith. For a second I found myself wishing we were still a cohesive unit, in spite of age and life experience. Cohesion is very important in families. In my assessment, in order to achieve a loving, cohesive unit, you need to:1.Continue reading “I have a dream of a cohesive family unit”

Dearest family, Let’s love and forgive each other

I got overwhelmed the other day thinking about ukhokho kakhokho wethu uMdambiso. Indoda eyayingabafuni ngempela abelumbi. “Salahlekelwa” ubukhosi basemaJwareni banikwa uDuma, saba uDumisa ngoba engeke azibandakanye nabelumbi.Wayengeyona indoda enonya, wayezazi ukuthi ungubani nokuthi yini angayifuni eduze kwakhe. Kuthe ngokushona kamfowabo uSoshangisa eMtshezi, kwafika imibiko yokungabi kuhle kwenhlalo yezingane nabafazi bomfowabo wathi mabalandwe.It is because ofContinue reading “Dearest family, Let’s love and forgive each other”

Children are such copy cats

I’m a coffee person (ngesiPitori “Myself I’m coffee person”). πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I woke up with certain characters on my mind and in my heart and yes, I do have a heart.I hide it well πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Growing up my parents insisted that we only drink Milo and cocoa. Little did they know that Khulu never got thatContinue reading “Children are such copy cats”

Real Housewives of Capetown Mid-season Review

Syabuka phela ngoba sithandizinto. Real Housewives of Capetown is such a let down πŸ™„. Lue only joined the show in the previous episode and she’s trying so hard to get the spotlight, it’s coming off as being tjatjarag. I loved how Rooksie owned uo to the work she’s had done on her body. That’s howContinue reading “Real Housewives of Capetown Mid-season Review”

Real Housewives of Lagos Season 1 Reunion Part 1 Review| It’s Caro’s world, we just live in it

Y’all know I love Toyin Real Housewives of Lagos Season 1 Reunion Part 1 did not go well for Toyin. First of all, can we pause and gasp collectively for the breathtaking fashions! Nigerian women know how to carry these over the top styles okay The chunky jewelry must have been the theme, potatoes andContinue reading “Real Housewives of Lagos Season 1 Reunion Part 1 Review| It’s Caro’s world, we just live in it”

Snowflake Mountain | I know I don’t qualify

Just finished watching Snowflake Montain. It’s a reality show on Netflix about spoilt young adults who are entitled, struggling with growing up (cleaning up after themselves, cooking, laundry, doing anything constructive with their lives) and leading their own lives basically. If it were shot here in Mzansi, to cast it they’d have to differentiate andContinue reading “Snowflake Mountain | I know I don’t qualify”

Real Housewives of Lagos Season 1 Episode 8 Review: Mid-season Reunion by Iyabo.

Did anybody else pause to read each whatsapp message on the #RHOLagos?Production is doing so much πŸ™„. The comparison of social media followers was hilarious πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Carolyna responded disproportionately vile to Laura’s whatsapp message. The girl is hateful. They can gang up on Laura all they want but Carolyna was in the wrong. Chioma’s gettingContinue reading “Real Housewives of Lagos Season 1 Episode 8 Review: Mid-season Reunion by Iyabo.”

Real Housewives of Lagos Season 1 Episode 7| Shots firedπŸ™†πŸΏ

Β I hadn’t felt like reviewing the Real Housewives of Lagos until now. The ladies have had their little dramas and shady moments, e.g. Chioma calling Laura a customer and not a friend, Carolyna boho event’s drama, Carolyn being cold towards Mirriam and all the antics at Laura’s fashion show. Marriam had asked for a drama-freeContinue reading “Real Housewives of Lagos Season 1 Episode 7| Shots firedπŸ™†πŸΏ”